tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1792389945373812191.post7598431357900270044..comments2023-11-05T03:46:49.345-08:00Comments on Seahorses & Rainbows: What do you do when you don't know yourself anymore?nikki woodhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14111113767745657224noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1792389945373812191.post-71523642501053431582009-09-28T14:22:03.295-07:002009-09-28T14:22:03.295-07:00Oh dear, (((Nikki))). I wish I could reach through...Oh dear, (((Nikki))). I wish I could reach through and give you a big hug. I know those feelings of loss of identity and the never ending missing. Sending you hugs. I'm so sorry. Peace.caitsmomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12526920268165723942noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1792389945373812191.post-52226431506106324862009-09-28T11:40:07.638-07:002009-09-28T11:40:07.638-07:00Oh honey... There have been so many days that I c...Oh honey... There have been so many days that I couldnt even imagine who I was because the person in the mirror couldnt possibly be me looking back. I remember saying to Peter "I dont know who that is anymore" and he said to me "You are my wife; you are their mother." It's the only thing I can define myself by; the grief has taken so much else away. <br /><br />You are Chris's wife. You are Nadine's mother. You are Alyssa's mother. You are David's mother. The details... They are everything else...Michelehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17681333723382119281noreply@blogger.com